- 4 years ago
- Wedding: November 2013 - old cheese factory
So for the last 2 months ive been harping on my FI about picking his groomsmen. our wedding is this november!!! we are getting down the the final stages of planning and he has only asked one person!! another thing ive asked him to do is ask his friends on his facebook that he already put on the guestlist for their address so we can mail out invitations in the next week. so far he hasnt done anything. he did however go with me to pick out our rings(i think only because they were having a sale otherwise he wouldnt have gone till the last possible moment).
ok so i had a dream last night that he didnt ask any other guys to be his groomsmen (not that big of a deal if they are uneven just annoying) then i realized he didnt get his stuff together to pickout/order any clothes for him and our son. so we were at my parents house (middle of no where) and had to pick from my dads closet…. my dad is 6’4 300lbs….. FI is 5’10 220lbs….. so he was swimming in his shirts but we had to make it work.
next in my dream i was already dressed and ready so i wanted to go look at our venue to seee how people were setting it up….. it wasnt set up AT ALL like my vision. the tables either didnt have table cloths on them or they had plastic ones obviously taped to the tables…. they didnt use any of my lace or burlap runners, they used blue and purple flowers (my colors are pale pink and creams) they didnt use any of my bottles i decorated. there was no fabric draped on anything. 🙁 i cried and said it looked nothing like i had planned, so the person setting up told me to do it myself. so here i was trying to fix things in my dress.
then for some reason i didnt have any flowers for my bouquet. instead i had animal balloons on sticks?????? what the heck? lol it was kiinda a cool idea but not for my wedding.
ugh, i hate to harp on FI but i think the stress of him procrastinating is taking its tole on me.