Post # 1
So, I was thinking about what to pack to wear on my wedding night and laughed because I will probably end up wearing sweats and a t-shirt and falling right to sleep even though a few people bought me bridal lingerie. Then I realized that it is probably really common to just pass out after the wedding from exhaustion. But then it occured to me that for some people, the “wedding night” may still be a really big deal. Is that the case for anyone? I’ll make this a poll so no one has to reveal anything they don’t want to.
Post # 3
we live together now, but it’s still going to be the first night i have with my husband, i’m excited for that!
Post # 4
I am too. I just fear that exhaustion will trump any other feeling.
Post # 5
by the time we get married we’ll have lived together for almost 4 1/2 years, and been together for a little over 5… but it will be our first night as husband & wife! And that will make it even more special!
Post # 6
To ME… I would probably rather just sleep. We have all honeymoon to get cozy and I’m sure I’ll be exhausted… plus falling asleep cuddle’d (is that a word?) in my guy’s arms is just about perfect to me.
I know it will be a big deal to him so I’m sure that I’ll make an effort 🙂
Post # 7
Waiting for this night! I am super excited about our first night together! We have been dating 4 years (4.5 by the wedding) and have waited. We joke about what song we could dance to at the end of the night – Yeah – by usher, Tonights gunna be a good night – by Black eyed peas. lol!
Post # 8
We lived together before we got married, but the wedding night was still a big deal. I was worried that I might be too tired too, but that didn’t turn out to be a problem.
Post # 9
We aren’t living together and won’t before we are married. I may have been there, done that, but it is still our wedding night.
Post # 10
Yeah, it’s a big deal for us. It would be a tragedy if we were “too tired” to enjoy ourselves. I highly doubt that will happen though.
Post # 11
yeah – “been there done that – but it IS still our wedding night” is my answer…
not sure about our actual WEDDING – next june, that is…I’m sure I’ll just pass out. lol
but on our legal day (last april) let’s just say it was a great night as a legally married couple.
Post # 12
We’re gonna play it by ear and see how we feel. If it doesn’t happen that night, it will happen the next morning! 😉
Post # 13
we lived together too, and our reception ended at midnight, but we were in no way too tired to celebrate our marriage!!!
Post # 14
Since we live together now and have been dating for several years, yes, we’ve already done the deed. But…it IS still our wedding night…and it would be the first time as husband and wife, and I’ll still try to make it special.
I’ve heard all sorts of stories about being so tired and just going to sleep…and I’ve told myself to not be disappointed if that should happen. We have seven wonderful nights on our honeymoon after that one night to make up for it…but I’d prefer to make it special!
Post # 15
I think it will still be special, I just hope I can figure out a way to wear something sexy under my dress!
Post # 16
We were still on a “high” from the whole day. Yes, we were tired, but not THAT tired!