(Closed) Wedding Night Jitters. HELP!

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
4336 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I assume that although you’re saving yourself for marriage (as we did,) you both WANT very desperately to have sex at times? (If not, then I think that’s a problem that you should talk to someone about, but I digress.)

One thing I’ve heard that is helpful (although we didn’t consumate our marriage on our wedding night, but for other reasons,) is to decide that you WON’T have sex your wedding night. Agree that you won’t have ANY expectations about “when” it will happen. Just take it slow, and let it happen when you are relaxed and there is no pressure! So what if it takes even a few weeks! You have the rest of your lives!

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