Post # 1
Our wedding is on a Saturday. Our hotel offers a 24 hour pool and allows booze and food in there. So after the wedding, we were gonna do an after party with our closest friends who stay at the hotel. The next morning, we will be getting up to be at the airport for our honeymoon by 10:00am.
I don’t know why but I am not all that concerned with there a lot of pressure for sexy time. We have been together for 5 years. I really wanted to pack all my sexy stuff for te honeymoon and just do “vanilla” sex on our actual wedding night. Lol
will I regret not making our wedding night all about sexy time? Or can I make up for it during our honeymoon? I don’t want to disappoint him but at the same time, what’s the pressure?
also, my dress has a corset. I won’t be wearing a bra under my dress…. what are you supposed to wear? I hear people wearing stockings and all this stuff, that’s not gonna work under my dress lol
Post # 3
For my wedding night (and I had been with hubby for 6 years before we were married) we were both exhausted and felt sweaty from all the partying so he took all the bobby pins out of my hair (which was super sweet of him) and then we took a shower together and totally relaxed and THEN we made time for the sexy time!
😉 Believe me, its worth thinking about sexy time on the wedding night. It was special.
Post # 4
We did a gap between our reception and our after party!
We only expected to have sex once, but DH overacchieved after we got back to the hotel at 2:30 am!
Post # 5
We had a hot tub in our wedding night hotel. So we just relaxed in there (while taking out my bobby pins) and had passioinate vanilla sex. We we pretty tired, but still wanted to have some fun! Although, if you can get a little hot tub or whirl pool, they are totally worth it!
Post # 6
Our room has a huge jacuzzi so we could take a bath. I think I’ll take something sexy for the night of but save my really good stuff for the honeymoon lol
there was a thread on here about some bees having some “tricks up their sleeves” … Umm what are your tricks specifically? Haha I’m not into anal but ill do different positions and toys… Suggestions? Lol
Post # 7
I’ve been getting really excited about my wedding night undies… heels, stockings, suspenders, french knickers, a brocade steel boned corset… I LOVE underwear.
I bet FI will be really boring and won’t appreciate it at all, though!
Post # 8
@SweetartMD: This is literally the exact same situation I was in (together 6 years, took out hair and took a bath together (we had a semi-functioning jacuzzi in our room, so it basically ended up being a huge bath) (while eating leftovers from the wedding w/ our fingers, favorite part of the night, haha) and then rallied and it was SO worth it. He fell asleep immediately after, lol, I stayed up watching cartoons on tv for a little bit before also falling asleep. It was a great nice end to the night and did seem to really…solidify things? It just felt right.
Post # 9
@Rachel631 Are you wearing all that uner your dress or changing into it after you take your dress off?
Post # 10
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
That sounds like what I’d do too. Honestly you have your whole lives to have sex – how often do you get to party with ALL your friends?! I’ve been with my guy for 10+ years so I hear ya on been there done that and saving the really special times for the honeymoon.
Post # 11
@Rachel631: I always wanted to do the hot corset, suspenders and knickers on my wedding night….but my bugger of a dress is heavily corseted and i was told to go braless…bit disappointed that I cant do that now!!!
Post # 12
We didn’t have sex on our wedding night. I was hot and sweaty and my back was killing me from my bustle and we just ended up collapsing. It’s just one night and our relationship isn’t all about sex.
Post # 13
@MissMudge: It’s going on under the dress! The waist training corset helps the dress fir perfectly, and I always wear matching undies and suspenders. I find tights far too hot and sweaty. Suspenders are much cooler and more comfortable, IMO, especially the more modern ones. FI doesn’t appreciate it, of course. He just rolls his eyes and says it’s silly!
@cmsgirl: The corset is underbust, because I probably won’t be able to wear a bra either. I’m thinking pasties with the corset, maybe? Ordered in a set of burlesque ones. I did a burlesque class for my hen, actually. I atually hate it when people come onto me etc, but I love feeling sexy in private! Like I said, though… FI won’t appreciate it at all, probably.