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Wedding Nightmare

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    KaitlinHudson    December 18, 2010   Patuxent River, MD

    I'm literally having nightmares about this wedding. Last night it was that I had only planned up to what I have planned right now, in October. Our rings were not out of the shop yet from being engraved, we didn't have our marriage license. My girls didn't have their shoes yet. The men hadn't picked up their tuxes, my dress wasn't altered. It was awful! Is anyone else going through this? I have these dreams almost every night and I'm still 9 weeks out!

     
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    eseds    September 4, 2011   Long Island, NY

    Im a year out.. I have  nightmares all the time.. The last one, my Fh's family wasnt there... not his mother... no one.. sigh...

     
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    SaraRocks    October 16, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    @KaitlinHudson: I had a dream just like that! We were about to go to the reception and then I realized I hadn't made the escort cards, so my mom just started writing them on random pieces of paper. it was bad! Then last week, I had another dream that my mom flipped out and decided to have the wedding at her house and went to costco to buy all sorts of frozen food. She also suggested that instead of my pretty pink dahlias, she wanted to use the dollar store grade silk flowers she found in my sisters room that had cheap butterfly crystals in them. It happens to all of us! Just take a deep breath and learn what you can from them. 

     

     
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    AngieN    December 31, 2010   Phila

    I had my first 2 nights ago.  We were all staying at a hotel with multiple different buildings.  I went up to the big building and started reading a book.  then I realized it was 3:15 and the limo was picking me up at 3:30 and I was still in my jeans and I hadn't showered yet.  I tried to take a shower up there, but there was a guy in the bathroom (it must have been a coed bathroom with multiple showers in it????)  I then get someone to take me back to the room in a golf cart and all of my inlaws were there.  My FI had already left, so I breathed a sigh of relief.  I told them I would be 15 min - I could shower, put on my make up and do my hair in 15 min right???  And I didnt know where my dress was. 

    I woke up in a cold sweat to the sound of my alarm. 

    My wedding is in December.  I hope I dont have months of this left. 

     
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    KaitlinHudson    December 18, 2010   Patuxent River, MD

    Glad to know I'm not going through it alone.

     
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    Rocketdog    October 22, 2011  

    I'm a little over a year out and I'm getting worried about contracts falling through or if I signed the wrong date...I think I checked my photographers about 10 times by now.

     
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    malloysharon    February 18, 2012  

    As wedding planning is a very tedious task and one is quite worried so that he should not miss anything. So it is quite natural to see such type of nightmares......

     
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    nskillet    October 23, 2010  

    Girl, this thread is incredible!!!

    I had one last night where we were never introduced, never had our first dance with dry ice as it was broken, and my sisters and family kept suffocating me telling me how wonderful everything was when I was upset and pissed at everyone!!

    God, woke up this morning terrified! I'm getting hitched 10/23/2010!

     
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    KaitlinHudson    December 18, 2010   Patuxent River, MD

    Had another one last night. I guess our chapel fell through and so I had to get married in my childhood church. No one could find the priest, I was in my dress and all of my guests were the people who I specifically didn't want there. When I was trying to get dressed and ready guests were coming in the suite and not allowing any progress. My mother and FMIL were too busy decorating a Christmas tree to setup for the actual ceremony. Awful.

     

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