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    VegasSukie    July 7, 2012   Montego Bay, Jamaica

    Hi Bees!  So for the last few weeks (since the I sent out my invitations to be exact) I have started having the weirdest wedding dreams.  More recently they have turned into nightmares.  Nothing to do with my wonderful FI or the marriage part, but nightmares about people hating the wedding, the decorations not being the right colors, the vendors all scamming me and not showing up on the day, the wedding costing us double what we budgeted for, etc. 

    I am having a DW in Jamaica and I honestly didn't expect many people to come.  Well, we have 28 people booked so far and about another 30 that have told us they are definitely coming.  I think this is when it became real to me and I started to panic.  What if everyone comes away from the wedding thinking "I spent all this money to attend THIS?!"  I have increased the number of items we are putting in the OOT bags and I'm looking to arrange for more entertainment the days leading up to wedding.  I don't know what else to do.  I'm just so scared at the thought of disappointing my guests.

    Has anyone else gone through this?  What can I do to just ease the stress and nightmares a little?

     
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    Utopia4us    January 10, 2013   DW in Cancun

    Ohmygoodness I feel just the same way! We are also having a DW and have been working on choosing our venue, and I have been a ball of nerves thinking that people will hate thplaced that I have chosen for us to all go on a vacation basically! So stressful! My BMs keep reminding me that people who love us enough to come will enjoy themselves no matter what.

     
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    GreenDream    February 25, 2012   Toronto/Edmonton

    Learn to laugh it off. I get the weirdest nightmares. Towards the end they're even starting to let up a bit. The worst was from around the 4 month out mark until 1 month out. At least for people coming to your destination wedding, they're also getting the whole resort experience. Maybe I'm just assuming that and it's not true? Anyway, I'm having people go to some sleepy prairie city... and I use that last word loosely.

     

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