Wedding nightmares- the day of and ex boyfriends.

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
432 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@MrsFitness:  I just woke up from a dream this afternoon that my FI and I were wedding planning (as is our life lately), and my last (and only other) very serious SO of five years called me. I haven’t talked to him in over 3 years, nor would I ever want to. Though, this hasn’t ever happened to me yet. I don’t even think about him ever, so I was a little taken aback when I woke up, like “what in the world?!”, but that quickly diminished when I turned my head to see my sweet FI. I’m sure it’s just that silly subconscious trying to remind us how lucky we are NOW. : )

I also had one where my FI decided he didn’t want to marry me, and that he was doing it “just because”. I woke up and told him, and he told me how absolutely crazy the notion was and was more then reassuring.

I think I posted on another one of your threads where we were having the same pre-wedding experience. So, you’re not alone! Oh, and I too thought I was immune to stress. Thought I was too strong to ever let this sort of stress affect me mentally or physically. Until, my body began doing something I couldn’t control…. My left eye twitches terribly now at the exact moment I get stressed and will continue off/on for hours. This is when I realized that it certainly does take it’s toll…. On everyone. 


Post # 4
5767 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

You need to go and do something else for a while. Take a full day off of wedding stuff. You’re spending every waking minute obsessing about your wedding (because that’s what every bride does). No wonder it’s invading your sleep. Go have a spa day and relax a bit.

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