- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 2009
Need to vent, dont know If Im the only one that has felt this way but here it goes. I chose 8 of my really good friends to be a part of my wedding party. WAYYYYYY too many really but it is what it is. A few live far so I understand the not being around but many live close to me. I feel that none of them really are “there” for me, helping through the little things. Now Im 11 days from the big day and I would think they would at least ask, “hey, do you need anything?” but instead some choose to make me feel bad that they have to take a half day of work for the rehearsal dinner 🙁
Yes they were at my shower and helped plan an awesome bachelorette party which I am more then appreciative of. I just finished being a bridesmaid in 2 weddings this summer and I tried to help in EVERY way possible, I was there for every fitting, makeup trial, program making etc. and i just dont feel like im getting it back at all. Am i being ridiculous? Hormonal? Crazy? Bridezilla? I have tried from day one to not get bridezilla with the girls, they each got to pick their own dress, wear their own shoes and did not demand hair/makeup done. I just need to know if its me or do I have good reason to be feeling these blues?
Thanks hive, any support comments (please refrain from being mean though as I really dont need that) would be of great help!