Wedding Party Dilemma!

posted 3 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 2
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

amybeth689:  Can your brother be an usher or do a reading? It would be kinder of your FI to ask him, but if he won’t do that, you can have him on your side.

Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - 11/15/14-Vineyard

Can he do a reading or a poem in the service?

Post # 5
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

amybeth689:  so have him on your side, or ask your FI to be gracious and ask him.

Post # 6
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Honey bee

Can you ask another bridesmaid so you each have 5?

Post # 7
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Blushing bee

Im in the same boat my fiancé has a lot of friends and doesn’t really want my brother on his side (not because he doesn’t like him he does, they just aren’t close) so I’m going to have my brother as an usher. It works out bc he is very shy so he wouldn’t want to stand up their the whole time, but he still will be involved and in pictures 

Post # 8
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

The groom gets to pick the groomsmen. It would be a nice gesture if he included your brother, but ultimately, he picks who stands up with him.

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