- 6 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
I have a good friend that I am not so close to anymore. We used to be super close and spent all our time together and I was a Bridesmaid or Best Man in her wedding. However, now we are not very close. We rarely see each other and only text here and there. My cousin is my Maid/Matron of Honor and my Fiance has a best man and one groomsman. I want to ask a coworker of mine to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man because we are pretty close and I consider her a good friend. So should I tell my old friend if I ask my coworker friend to be in the wedding or just have the coworker as a Bridesmaid or Best Man and the old friend will find out whenever she finds out?