(Closed) Wedding planning is not blissful.(come and vent here.)

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No you are not terrible! I am so scared of walking down the aisle and having everyone look at me. I am scared to do the first dance. I do enjoy some aspects of planning but not all. We hired a wedding planner about 7 months ago. So I think that has helped me not pull my hair out. I am dont get excited over the small things either. No posts about favors or my cool colors. I kind of just saw things I liked and went with the flow. I also think you are closer to your wedding than most of the bees posting about inspiration boards, pink pold a dot favors and all that jazz. Those bees are still in their planning stages and hopefully you are in the wrapping things up stage. that can be pretty dull. You are perfectly normal to me!

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

You sound exactly like me! I begged the FI to elope, oh no we have to have a huge wedding. Ugh. And who gets to plan it? Yes, it’s me. I’m trying to make the best of it but it’s hard.  I just keep trying to focus on what the day is about, not all the frivolity of it all or the 400 people who will be gawking at my while I walk down the aisle, or the awkwardness of having my father and his family there.So no, you are not a terrible bride, just a simpler one which I think is a wonderful characteristic!

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