Wedding Planning Issue

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

His reaction seems a little harsh, but generally guys are just not as interested in the actual wedding than women.

Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

 

Shellya7:  That’s a pretty crappy response out of him but not unexpected. You only get married for the first time once, you want it to be beautiful, memorable and special for the both of you. I’d keep some of this to yourself or share with a close friend or family member that will be there. Guys just don’t seem to understand what goes into a wedding so you’ll need to ease him into it slowly. I would try to avoid discussing all the details and odds and ends until you’re much closer to go time, then you will have your mind made up and you can say “this is what I want and I plan to do it like this”. Where your eloping and what he’s wearing will need to be discussed obviously but beyond that, it’s not necessary.

Good luck, I’m in the same eloping/small ceremony boat and it’s been tough getting him to relax and let me handle to planning. He only has his immediate family unit and I come from a divorced family in which my father and mother both have 5+ siblings all still living so it’s a little more complicated…

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