- 3 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
I know this topic has been discussed before, but I’m just having a very “reflective” day, as I’m stormed in.
Let me preface this with saying that I have always been a quality over quantity person when it comes to friends. I feel extremely lucky to have had the same best friend since the 5th grade. We live in different towns and have different work schedules so sometimes we go months without seeing each other, but always manage to talk over the phone once a week. I also have a close friend from university whom I’ve known for 10 years. We live in the same city so we see each other every couple of weeks. I also have a couple more close friends that I’ve met over the years who live away, so we keep in touch over skype/email/ texts.
Despite having a guest list over 130 people, I’m trying to think who would actually come to my bridal shower/ bachelorette- which I know seems so trivial, especially when I do a few very near and dear people in my life whom I know care for me. And I know there will be people who would come in theory but based on travel etc it won’t be possible. I guess, when I sit down and think who would actually come, I just don’t it would be that many. And like I said, I know that seems kind of trivial or silly, but it just makes me a little bit sad… anyone else feel like this during the planning process?