Post # 1
I was hardcore into wedding planning and then I got a job (Which is good because we can afford the wedding now) so I e-mailed the photographer ASAP letting her know I got a job and was wondering and asked if she was still available, and she was booked!! This is the second photographer in my area to get booked for our date and it’s so dissapointing. We have no deposits on anything, and my FH said it was “a bit ridiculous to change our date for a photographer”
Now I don’t even feel like planning the wedding, everything keeps getting booked, or FH says he doesn’t like this or doesn’t like that, even though he says “it’s up to me”
It’s so annoying, I’m ready to throw every wedding planning thing at him and tell him to do it himself.
Post # 3
I kinda went through the same thing. My Fiance really wasn’t interested in any of the planning and I cannot count the times he told me “Who even cares about that type of thing?” or “Why bother?” and there were a few times when it was super frustrating and it really hurt my feelings and I would get into that same mindset, like if he doesn’t care then why should I? Whenever I got like that I would find something else to dom put the wedding stuff away for a little while.
Now that we’re closer to the wedding Fiance has become much more interested in everything. I really think he has no idea how much really goes in to planning a wedding.
Post # 4
I totally agree with fizzycolors! Mine wasn’t interested at all throughout the process, he’d say he was helping with decisions, but it was pretty much telling him about an idea and he’d say sure… Kind of a one sided planning. But now that we’re getting down there, he’s finally starting to understand how much big and small that has to go into planning to make this day an amazing one! It gets easier, and starts coming together in time, just keep at it 🙂