(Closed) Wedding Planning Stress – Vent – Kinda Long

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7656 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think you should push it back, as hard as it is. You only have one deposit in. Don’t get 3 or 4 deep before you realize you can’t do it. OR if you can, hire a wedding planner/coordinator to help you if you don’t want to change the date.

If you decide to keep the date and not get a planner you cannot do the DIY projects. At this point priority lies with your job and school (at least that is where mine would be). At least you’re engaged 🙂

Good luck! I hope it works out!!

Post # 4
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1284 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree… I would push it back a little bit to make it less stressful for you. Best of luck!

Post # 5
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1217 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

What kind of wedding are you planning, and how many guests? There are SO many ways to simply a wedding, and many experts on this site who can help you figure out what’s necessary and what are silly details. Weddings can be stressful but they don’t have to be. I work long hours, and I am a pretty easily-stressed out girl, but my mom and my FI rarely get stressed and help anchor me.

Post # 7
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67 posts
Worker bee

A friend of mine has been engaged 4 years.  Not married yet.  Push off the wedding until you actually have a full-time job.  If you are set on doing it as you have planned, then you will have to make concessions to spend less money.  Most couples do that anyway.  Eating out, going to dinners with friends, sporting events, concerts, are all a no-no for the year you are engaged.

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