Wedding plans change

posted 3 years ago in Destination Weddings
Post # 2
Member
2700 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

If that’s what you’re feeling and you don’t mind lossing your deposit, do it!

Post # 3
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461 posts
Helper bee

If I was in your position, I’d go for it.  You’re going to lose a little money on the venue, but nothing compared to everything you’d have to spend for the wedding if you actually went through with it.  I would tell your parents that they can come if they want and be there to see you get married, but if not, it won’t bother you.  I think that it sounds lovely to just go off and get married where you want with the man of your dreams!

Plus, it would save a TON of stress.  I woudl love to do that, but I’m one of those people who’s always dreamed of a big wedding and know that I would kind of regret not having one.  But if you’re not one of those people, why not save time and money and stress and get to spend more money on your honeymoon/rings or other things that are important?? 🙂

Post # 4
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1124 posts
Bumble bee

I’m so sorry to hear about these negative feelings surrounding your engagement. What have you always wanted? A small, intimate wedding, or a big party? 

 

Im going through something similar and we debated the same thing. But in the end, we both have dreamed about having a big party and we’re going through with our wedding. It’s so easy to be clouded by the negative people and not see those who are so happy for you. I suggest you search out those who are truly happy for you and spend your energy on them. Their excitement will be contagious and you’ll get excited about your wedding and life together. 

Post # 5
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2435 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

We are having a small wedding and only inviting people who showed interest in our lives. Our families and close friends.

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