- 5 years ago
- Wedding: January 2013
FI and I kept our engagement under wraps because so many people were getting married and even had a divorce. Then my crazy aunt launched her own fake engagement that went down in a blaze of glory. All this time we have been secretly planning our wedding quietly for the third weekend in April.
Just this morning FI calls from work and says he has to head to Kuwait for 6 months. He wont return til July.
So today I dealt with the venue (all inclusive)
This wedding stuff is stressful and its intimidating for most people and its been for me but going all inclusive worked for our busy schedules. We went with a standard food menu, picked everything and let them do it all for me.
Now the weird part. Im actually glad for the postponement only for the sheer relief of having a few months where I can sit back and do nothing til the new date. I love FI and cant wait for him to be my husband, but I am glad for the brief interlude to relax.
FI luckily hadnt booked the honeymoon so we are able to reschedule it. I asked FI if it was weird that I was happy about the delay and he said he was actually happy about he delay but not the deployment. We have been on a whirlwind by ourselves since we kept the engagement under wraps. He said with the date change and everything already done we could just sit back and relax for the last few months.
So not sad but happy and FI is happy too,.