(Closed) Wedding POSTPONED! This day officially sucks big time!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1725 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I’m so sorry to hear that 🙁 I know how frustrating it is to feel like you just want to get married, but life is getting in the way….will say a prayer for you

Post # 4
2416 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Yikes! I’m so sorry. I don’t know entirely what you are going through, but I can relate to some aspects: I have a work-related injury that has caused me to not be able to work…it’s incredibly stressful to worry about money! I hope this all works out for you in the end! Keep your head up…

Post # 5
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I know you said that a student loan is not in your best interest because of the high interest rate but I think it is a better option than giving up the 30,000 plus all that hard work you put into school. You also said that the bank will not give you a loan because you don’t work full time but I’m pretty sure you don’t need a job to get a student loan. I’m not sure how it works in Jamaica. Also, will the US offer you student loans because you are going to school here? Also not sure how that works. However, I do know that you can begin paying off your interest while you are still in school. Based on the 8,000 loan and 21% interest, you will be paying under $5 a day on interest. It definitely isn’t ideal but I think it’s a much better option than letting everything else go down the drain.

And I know how you feel about the frustration of being away from your Fiance and not being able to do anything about it. I have been away from my Fiance for 2 years now because he got a job but I have been stuck at school. 🙁 Good luck and once your nerves and frustration calms down, you will be able to make the right decision for you. 

Post # 6
33 posts
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m currntly in the US on a Fiancé Visa!

I’m sorry to hear abo0ut your situation. It really is tough!

You may not need to come in on a fiancé Visa, but a Spouse Visa, should you choose to marry before you go in to the US!

Also, you can travel while your Visa application is processing, I did so twice in the last year. Just make sure you have your papers in order, and bring your papers with you when you ravel to the US! I came in for a week once, and for about a month and a half the second time and I had already been here for two weeks prior to that!

It’s not as scary as it may seem, jut make sure your papers are in order, and be honest with the customs agents! You should be fine!

If you  need anything else, please don’t hesitate to contact me! I’m happy to answer anything I can!


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