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    KIKI82    October 30, 2010   SoCal

    Hey gals!

    Was wondering if you could share your timeline with me. I started one just for fun and it seems like the reception is just packed with too many things! I would like more time for dancing, but do not know where to cut.I wish the venue would let me start the ceremony earlier but they won /:

    Anyway here's my draft timeline

    5:30pm- 6pm     Ceremony        

    6pm-7:30pm      Mariachi plays  

    6pm-6:15pm      Congratulations

    6:15pm-7pm      Cocktail Reception (wedding party take photos)       

    7pm-7:15pm      Seating

    7:15pm-7:30pm  Wedding Party and B&G Entrance        

    7:30-7:45pm      First Dance      

    7:45pm-8:45pm  Dinner Hour     

    8:15pm-8:45pm  B&G walk to tables      

    8:45pm-9pm      Toast  

    9:15pm-9:30pm  Japanese Drummers     

    9:30pm-9:45pm  Cake Cutting & Serving

    9:45pm-10pm    B&G Thank you speech          

    10pm-10:30pm   Dollar Dance   

    10:30pm- 11pm  Dancing           

    11pm-11:15pm   Garter Toss & Bouquet Toss    

    11:15pm-1am    Dancing

     
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    jenbrandner    Aug 7, 2010   Wisconsin

    Yay!  I have a mariachi band too!

    Our toasts will be during dinner.  I think many of the items on your list won't really take as long as you've allotted for them.  15 minutes for the first dance?  15 minutes of toasts?  30 minutes for the dollar dance?  (Well I suppose that's possible, and you'd be quite rich afterward!)

    My timeline isn't as granular, but it goes something like this:

    1:00 ceremony

    2:00-4:00 gap for pictures, travel, OOT guests to check into hotels

    4:00 reception starts, bar opens, Mariachi band sings

    5:00 bridal party makes grand entrance

    5:25 cut the cake (to be plated by staff while we eat)

    5:30 dinner (toasts happen during dinner), Mariachi band sings to each table

    6:30 first dance, father-daughter dance, etc etc

    6:45 dance floor opens

    8:00-ish (or whenever the DJ gets around to it) bouquet and garter tosses

     
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    ZoeKat    July 2010  

    Here is the timeline that my venue wrote up for me. I will probably keep everything as is.

    2:00  Pre-ceremony Pictures 

    2:00  Reception Room Ready to Decorate

    3:00  Prepare Meadow for ceremony

    3:30  Guest anticipated arrival time, bar opens

    4:00  Wedding Ceremony

    4:30  Appetizers/Cocktails for Guests

    4:30  Receiving line, post-ceremony pictures

    5:30  Private appetizers for Bride and Groom

    5:45  Bride and Groom introduced

    6:00  Salads & Bread Service Down

    6:20  Entrees Served

    7:00  Toasting

    7:15  Cake Cutting

    7:30  First Dance

    9:45  Last call at bar

    10:00  Personal Item Clean-up of Reception Room(s)-30 min. prior to end

    10:20  Dinner to go for Bride and Groom is ready

    10:30  End

    10:30 - ??? After party next door!

    Okay, I added the last one myself.

     
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    KIKI82    October 30, 2010   SoCal

    Thanks girls!

     
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    speulie    December 29, 2011  

    Maybe shorten the 6pm-7:30pm Mariachi plays, people might start getting antsy. Also, while people are getting seated you could cut your cake, then maybe do the garter/bouquet toss before the dollar dance or after so you can dance through from 11-1!

     

    Good luck! (I haven't even thought of a timeline yet.. Opps!)

     
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    KIKI82    October 30, 2010   SoCal

    Ya I really want more dancing time! After writing everything down it seems like the wedding is just going to fly by!

     

    What do you guys think about the Japanese drummers? Different? My FI is half Japanese and wants them to play for a full 30min during dinner but I think that is just too long!

     

    Good suggestion about the Mariachi problem is is that most bands have a 2hr minimum. I was just thinking having them play during the cocktail reception and grand entrance and then leaving. Plus I really do not want to spend money feeding them, I know that sounds bad but that is an extra 5 plates!!

     
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    speulie    December 29, 2011  

    Ahh, I didn't think about band minimums.. They'll get you!  You could always have the toasts before dinner, then the time for toasts won't be determined on when you're done walking arond talking to all your guests. Then the Japanese drummers can start when you are finishing up your walk arounds. You hav a TON you can play around with.

    30 minutes is kind of long for the drummers, I'd get a headache.

     

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