Wedding related Facebook posts

posted 3 years ago in Technology
  • poll: Honestly, how many times have you made wedding/"Fiance" related Facebook posts?
    Never. I have kept all of that private from Facebook or don't use Facebook : (67 votes)
    33 %
    1-5: I have made several posts but try not to make it the focus of my FB page : (116 votes)
    57 %
    6-10: Moderate wedding posting : (14 votes)
    7 %
    11+: Countdowns, updates on planning, I will post whatever's going on! : (8 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
    5697 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    I never posted antyhing about the wedding really. Just a photo of us the night we got engaged, I never posted about finding decor, or things like that. I just didn’t think anyone else really cared, because they don’t!

    Post # 4
    2063 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    i have made two wedding related posts. the first was a status about getting engaged. i think it was just like ‘____ is getting a new last name”. no ring pic or anything. the second was just thanking my friends and family for the shower. thattttt’s it. posting too much info is weird to me, regardless of the topic.

    Post # 5
    131 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    @Andthepupmakes3:  All I’ve done is casually referred to my FI as my FI in one comment on my profile picture, after another close friend mentioned my ring – which is visible in the picture, but not featured. I also posted a cute picture of us from our engagement photos as my cover photo, but I didn’t label it as an engagement photo or anything like that… for all you know, it might just be a cute picture of the two of us.

    We’ve been dating for years and we never bothered to make it “facebook official”… it’s just not important to either of us, and in fact it weirds me out a little bit sharing that information with Facebook. So no, I haven’t even set my status as engaged. And I never posted a picture of my ring.

    Overall, FI and I are pretty private people. Additionally, I want to avoid any talk of my wedding popping up on Facebook, considering our very limited guest list.

    Post # 9
    671 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I’m ALWAYS talking about it. It’s exciting!! If any of my friends or family get annoyed they know were the “hide” button is!! 🙂

    Post # 10
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    1- The ring when we got engaged (and changed status to “engaged”)—-8/12

    2- When we got our first RSVP back


    3- The day after the wedding, I posted that the wedding was wonderful and we were so thankful to everyone that came and all the family who supported us!


    Post # 11
    705 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Andthepupmakes3:  No totally! I do the same thing!! It’s just too hard to search sometimes. Also, I find that opinions change relatively quickly (especially in regard to anything technology-related), so it’s nice to bring it back up again! 🙂

    Post # 12
    2565 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I made a post with the engagement ring, and that will be it.  I’ll post some pictures of the wedding probably.  I don’t make status updates.  I think I’ve made one (besides the engagement) since joining facebook.

    Post # 13
    885 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Nothing at all.  I didn’t even change my status when we got engaged, mostly because I don’t like people knowing my business.

    Post # 14
    195 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2016

    I personally I get annoyed with seeing “My fiance” this or that, or to see post regarding wedding planning, it’s like … So I basically know exactly how your wedding will be, there’s no loger that element of suprise or of looking forward to it because you have given away most of the details. It’s like the mom’s who post non stop babie pictures… yes he/she are very cute and adorable, but please that’s not all I want to see when I log on on my newsfeed.

    Post # 15
    6948 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @Andthepupmakes3:  I posted about getting engaged. Shared a funny conversation my cousin and I had about dresses, talked about “engagement season” and how five couples I know have gotten engaged since late November and I just now shared an Offbeat Bride post about silly engagement pics. That last one is just bc it’s hard to share a link on someone’s wall on my iPhone so I posted it on my own status and tagged my recently engaged cousin. 

    Post # 16
    951 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    @Andthepupmakes3:  uh, I’m somewhere in the middle of 1 and 2.  I updated my relationship status, wrote  thank you post to all the people congratulating us, mentioned dress shopping once.  However, Mr. S refers to me as Fiance is his posts and I get tagged.  lol – he’s excited.  My photographer tagged us in a couple of engagement photo previews.  And a bridesmaid tagged me in a thing about dress shopping and the after-lunch/drinks.

    If you post decor on FB, people are going to see it and it may suit someone else and they’ll use it.  No different than pinterest in that respect.  I wouldn’t ever post that stuff not only to potentially have someone else use it, but because not everyone I’m friends with is invited, and I want our wedding to be a surprise for those that are.

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