(Closed) wedding relationship is over

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@malouloune:  *HUGS*  So sorry to hear you’re going through this.  Best of luck with everything.

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Yikes! Sorry to hear this. So will your daughter be able to come here???

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo

I’m sorry you have to go through this, but I’m happy for you in that this is a new stage in your life, and things can only get better.  You definitely deserve someone who will love and cherish both you and your daughter more than your ex appears to.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

Sending hugs your way.  I’m so sorry you have to go through this 🙁

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

@malouloune:  Sorry hun x. You have made your decision, so put this behind you and move on. You deserve happiness and you are NOT a failure. Your little girl loves and needs you, and you both will be just fine. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

This sounds horrendous. I hope you are able to get out of the relationship without a lot of mess following. Also, have you thought about talking to a counselor – maybe not right away but eventually? It sounds like you have a few self-esteem issues that a professional could help you address. My sister recently got out of an emotionally abusive marriage and it has taken 2+ years to help rebuild her idea of what a woman is and can be. (And what a healthy relationship should be like).

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@malouloune:  I find I usually can’t cry at an emotionally stirring situation until its completely over. Some type of flight or fight response thing – ‘can’t cry – need to act’ ionno. I do hope you find a way through this though.

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@malouloune:  Your family will understand in time as long as you make healthy, future oriented decisions that they (and your daughter) can be proud of. You and her are all that needs to matter right now.

Post # 15
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Newbee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@malouloune:  *big squishy hugs* I’m so very sorry that you’re going through this right now but by the sounds of it, you’re doing the right thing. Stick with doing what is best for you and your daughter xo

Post # 16
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

@malouloune:  Oh my gosh. I’m so sorry to read this! I was just about to message you and ask if you booked that new venue you found. I’m sorry that he wasn’t willing to make the relationship work. It sounds like you dodged a bullet though. You’re a beautiful girl with a great personality and I know you will find someone who will love you and your daughter forever!!

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