Wedding ring dilemma!

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 2
248 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2016

I’m not a big one on superstitions (Obviously as my orginal wedding date just happened to fall on Friday 13).  This being so, I would say that if you like the set together I would just use the intended wedding ring as your wedding ring.

If that just seems wrong, you could buy an additional plain band to wear.  Then you would have the wedding band you have not worn before.  It would also be practical for when you are doing things that might not be the best for your set.

Or get a band (or have one made) that fit around your set.  Three rings could make a pretty cool stack.



Post # 3
3406 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

can we see pictures? and I think if you’re really worried get a plain band and stack your rings!

Post # 4
161 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I am not at all superstitous. Me and my man will be getting ready together for our wedding and going there in the same car. None of this, not seeing me til I wander into the room type thing. But we are just practical people. Neither of us overly romantic. I think if you like it wear it and if you don’t pick a new one.   

Post # 5
5187 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

The rings do not have any effect in the success and happiness of your marriage; this is defined by the love and committment you both put into it.  As for the rings, wear what you love, either the one you have or a different one.  Wish you a long and happy marriage!

Post # 6
795 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Your marriage success is not based on your ring, but your love and commitment. If a small thing like wearing a band before marriage has the power to alter your relationship you have bigger problems that need to be explored. I’m not even purchasing a wedding band because my engagement ring band is 6 mm and therefore would look awkward and cumbersome. 

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