Post # 1
I am wondering whether i should get a new wedding band or not. When my fiance proposed to me he gave me two rings because he taught it came as an engagement set, oblivious to the fact that one is for engagement and the other for the wedding day. Haha, silly us. After we realized the mistake i stopped wearing them together and just started wearing the engagement ring only. Now i am thinking if it would be taboo to use the same ring on my wedding day since i wore it already. What do you guys think?
Post # 2
I’m not a big one on superstitions (Obviously as my orginal wedding date just happened to fall on Friday 13). This being so, I would say that if you like the set together I would just use the intended wedding ring as your wedding ring.
If that just seems wrong, you could buy an additional plain band to wear. Then you would have the wedding band you have not worn before. It would also be practical for when you are doing things that might not be the best for your set.
Or get a band (or have one made) that fit around your set. Three rings could make a pretty cool stack.
Post # 3
can we see pictures? and I think if you’re really worried get a plain band and stack your rings!
Post # 4
I am not at all superstitous. Me and my man will be getting ready together for our wedding and going there in the same car. None of this, not seeing me til I wander into the room type thing. But we are just practical people. Neither of us overly romantic. I think if you like it wear it and if you don’t pick a new one.
Post # 5
- Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY
The rings do not have any effect in the success and happiness of your marriage; this is defined by the love and committment you both put into it. As for the rings, wear what you love, either the one you have or a different one. Wish you a long and happy marriage!
Post # 6
Your marriage success is not based on your ring, but your love and commitment. If a small thing like wearing a band before marriage has the power to alter your relationship you have bigger problems that need to be explored. I’m not even purchasing a wedding band because my engagement ring band is 6 mm and therefore would look awkward and cumbersome.