- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
Is it rude if I don’t get a gift for the bride at the bridal shower if I am paying a larger amount of $ towards cost of the bridal shower itself (i.e. food)? I’m a little (ok a lot) strapped for cash but I don’t want to be rude.
Background…I’m one of the bridesmaids for this wedding but I am also getting married myself soon (4 months away). My fiance and I also just purchased a house. We also have a 2nd mortgage because our original house (which we are looking to rent) does not have renters yet, so we are covering both mortgages, wedding costs and costs of being in someone else’s wedding. Talk about stress 🙂
Just looking to get a generl consensus 🙂