Post # 1
Ok bees! I’m having 2 wedding showers as half our guest list lives in my hometown and half our guest list lives in fiance’s hometown. These towns are about 4.5 hours apart. When we got engaged, a family friend said to have my mom let her know if we needed anything like her to host a shower. Well now it’s time to start thinking about said shower and I’m not sure how to approach the subject. My bridesmaids are throwing my shower in fiance’s hometown so that’s not an issue. I just feel weird saying “when do you want to throw my shower?”
Post # 3
@mrsdfarrar6714: Right now it sounds like you are having one confirmed shower (hosted by your bridesmaids) and want to have another one (and need someone to host).
If she previously told you to have your Mom contact her, then have your Mom contact her.
Post # 4
I would maybe have your mother contact her and explain the situation. Since y’all already talked about it, I’m sure she will jump right in and offer to host it.
Post # 5
It’s times like these during wedding planning when moms can be super helpful. 🙂 Have her work on this one for you!