- 5 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
I am newly engaged. I want a small wedding 80-100 guests. My FI wants a large wedding.
He told me the other night that he started to make his guest list, it had 50 people on it. I was excited and told him that was better than the original 80 he had told me some time ago. He claims he never told me 80, but then dropped the bomb that the 50 is only his friends. I almost had a heart attack. He has a huge family.
I am stressed already and worried about money. My mom will be footing this bill since his family has no money. I hope they will be able to contribute in some way, at the very least the rehearsal dinner but I am not holding my breath.
I know he will need to significantly cut down his guest list and we will soon have to talk about money and the guest like policy and really start wedding planning.
I know I’m not asking a question, but I just needed to vent. Though any advise on the subject would be appreciated.