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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    Ahh this is the third time i have tried to vent on wedding bee and it earases my post ugg.

    Recently i have been under allot of uneeeded wedding stress put on by my family. It seems like i have to fight them for everything i want for my wedding. I am not a selfish mean person but recently due to all this stress i have been super bitch bride and its taking a tole on me and worse yet my relationship with my fi.   All this stress is making me deressed about the wedding.  They tell me its non of my buisness how they decorate the cermony.  Well i want to be enovolved since the people decorating where the first to tell me my colors of pink and green where ugly. I want my wedding to be pretty sorry if thats important.  Also it seems that everything to my family is about money.  Recently my fi graduated with a engineering degree. Well grandma dsont think i should marry him because he dosnt have his job.  He has a job right now , but not his engineering job he has applied and interviewed at many places.  I'm sorry i don't think love = money I love him whether he is rich or poor. Why should i base a lifetime of love off cash. Fi dosn't like being poor as we are and is working to fix that. I just with my family would take a hike. 

    Oh and in other news bridemaid from hell is on the finale string.  If you don't know what im talking about look at my older posts.  She is back to not answering my calls and messages agian oh joy.

     
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    sweetnote10    May 5, 2012   evansville, indiana

    Oh no I am so sorry they are doing this to you. It is shame that they arent letting you give your input on your special day. My only advice is that if you are now arguing with FI I would call for a little vacation from all wedding planning. Maybe just a week to relax and you and FI spend time enjoying each other's company. I would hate for the stress to keep buillding and your wedding be pushed back. After I took the week I then would talk to my family and let them know honestly how you are feeling and if they dont like it oh well its not their day. You didnt mention if they were contributing money or not but even if they were I dont think they should have completely control over the wedding.

    I hope it all gets better for you!

     

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