- 6 years ago
- Wedding: August 2012 - Sunset Harbour
My family is at war with each other! This has been going on for months, but as the weddings get closer, it is starting to irk me all the more.
Fiance and I got engaged in January 2011.
My year older male cousin T got engages March 2011.
He then proceeded to set his wedding for the date that my shower was supposed to be on – AFTER being told by my father ‘this is the date for her shower, don’t pick this date’.
My aunt (his mother) has nit picked every single detail of my own wedding – compairing it to her sons wedding. Flowers, dresses, hairstyles, EVERYTHING. I am now no longer sharing details with her because I don’t want to hear it. She originally made sush a fuss that she wanted to be involved and how she was so happy that her beloved goddaughter was getting married – only to make snide comments sbout EVERY choice that I have made.
Then the other day she showed up at my job to say hi and I happened to have a copy of our invite with me since we had just gotten them in that morning. I figured I’d show it to her since she is going to get one soon anyway. She seems to like it, we chat, and then she says she has to head off. I am about to get back to work when I realize – I can’t find the invite.
I find her still in the building and ask if she forgot to hand it back to me. She makes a face and complains ‘Oh….you wanted it back?’ and takes it out from her purse and reluctantly gives it back to me.
Who DOES that??? She is going to get one anyway, and if she wanted it, she could have – you know – ASKED.
I forsee this whole thing just getting worse and I can completly see my ass of a cousisn making some sort of comment at my wedding trying to be funny with a ‘oh our wedding wins though haha!’ And then I will have to punch him in the face.
He’s getting married June 2nd, so I hope he and my stupid aunt shut up after the wedding.