Wedding Vent….

posted 2 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
90 posts
Worker bee

Some people really need to step up and get with the program. Why agree to be a bridesmaid if you’re not even willing to get a dress? Are they expecting you to purchase it?

Post # 3
2139 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I feel ya hun. We are only having a MOH (my sister) and a best man (FI’s lifelong best friend). My sister has been great but the BM has been really flaky and lame. We picked out a suit for him, bought it, and had it shipped to a store in his state for him to pick up. It sat at the store for TWO WHOLE MONTHS before he went in to get it. He kept telling us “I’ll get it this weekend”…it seriously stressed me out  so much. I just can’t understand how it’s so hard to walk into a store and pick up a suit that has already been paid for, and all you need to do is have them hem the pants!!!!

I guess all you can do is keep bringing it up that they need to get their dresses, and soon. If they don’t have their dresses one month before the wedding, I’d seriously consider cutting them out of the bridal party. You don’t need that kind of stress just weeks before your wedding.

ETA: Communication is really important. You need to make it clear to them what you are expecting, or else you will look like the bad guy later on.

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 4 months ago by  boogiewoogies.
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