Post # 1
Would you be ok with fiance attending wedding without you if you were not invited? What if you could not go?
Sadly, I won’t be able to attend a wedding this weekend. We were not engaged at the time of the invite so I was not invited. No hurt feelings! Curious about what other bees think it.
Post # 2
ruphiolis: It would kind of suck. Yes, I’d be ok but probably a little sad.
Post # 3
My fiance recently attended a wedding without me, which I supported. At first I thought I was not invited (invitation addressed poorly), but I couldn’t attend regardless. No point in depriving him of having some fun just because I couldn’t attend.
Post # 4
No, because even if you weren’t engaged at the time, you would have been in a relationship and therefore should have been invited.
I would not attend.
Post # 5
ruphiolis: I would be ok, because although we love spending time together, not all his friends are my friends (and vice versa), and sometimes I have things planned on the weekend that don’t include him. I’d tell him to go and have fun. 🙂
Post # 6
- Wedding: May 2014 - Smithfield Center
I’m assuming you were together a while before being engaged so no, I wouldn’t be okay with FI going.
Post # 7
Definitely, I understand that everyone has the reasons for inviting how they wish. And I’m not gonna make him miss out just because i wasn’t invited. Tbh I really don’t care for a few of his friends, and I would rather him go by himself anyhow, I know he would enjoy it more. now, it’s totally up to him though, if he wants to go without me.
Post # 8
i’d be fine if i could not go. FI’s cousin is getting married in denver over the summer. there’s no way it will be possible for the two of us to attend. so he will go alone. i’m in a wedding the weekend before, which he won’t attend due to a longstanding dislike of the groom (who doesn’t like him either, so it’s better that he doesn’t attend).
Post # 9
I would be ok with him attending a weddng by himself, or me attending a wedding by myself (I actually recently did because it was out of state and we couldn’t afford to both attend), but I would be hurt if only one of us is invited. If you are going to ask me to spend my time and money celebrating your relationship, you better at least recognize mine.
Post # 10
Assuming that the bride and groom’s cut-off was engaged/married guests get a +1, then I would be totally cool with my FI/DH going by himself to the wedding. If anything, it would give me a good opportunity to catch up on some Netflix movies/shows and give myself a beauty/spa night. 🙂
Post # 11
- Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY
I don’t have an issue with DH going to a wedding (or anyplace else) without me. However, he doesn’t like going to events without me.
Post # 12
I wouldnt have an issue, but I would question why they didnt extend a plus one. Specially if it was known you two were in a relationship. Did he ask if he could bring his fiance?
Post # 13
My guy goes to weddings all the time without me. If I had to go to every single one he goes to, I’d have to quit my job because that basically means an event every single weekend.
I wouldn’t sweat it, specially since you guys weren’t engaged at the time.
Post # 14
I would be totally fine with it. If anything it gives me a chance to invite over the girls, drink some wine, and watch some rom coms. My SO and I have only had one case where I wasn’t invited to the wedding, but we have another one the same day that I am invited to. No loss there.
Post # 15
I’d be totally fine with it. I’m assuming they had a cut off for non engaged/married which sucks a little but I’m sure we can all understand that you’ve gotta cut somewhere. I would leave it up to him.