- 9 years ago
okay, my FH’s maternal grandmother and graciously already sent a gift to us ( a really nice cephalon pot/pan set) She was invited to my bridal shower, as well as the wedding of course. My conundrum is this- the shower invite stated specifically it was a Linen shower, so, I am not sure if maybe she didn’t catch that and this is intended as a shower present. She is coming to the shower, so, maybe this is the wedding present and she will bring something else to the shower? I definately don’t want to seem greedy and ask her if it is one or the other or both, which would be fine as it was one of the more expensive gifts on the registry. Should I just take it to the shower and leave it in another room and if she shows up with another gift I will know it was a ‘wedding’ present and if not then I can bring it out and thank her in person for it? That was the only solution I could come up with. My shower is April 18th and as badly as I want to open my beautiful new pots and use them I am holding off till I know, definately don’t want her to think I’m not appreciative and if they are the shower present I want her to know I am grateful and have the opporitunity to show the gift off to the other shower guests ( so to speak).