Post # 1
Just curious, do any of you girls get weird vibes during the week before meeting up? I feel like FI and I kind of just put off stuff until we meet up as we know its close. It causes a little more weird stress/tension than usual and it resolves once we talk through the things (wedding planning, honeymoon plans etc) when we get together, but i just wonder if anyone else has this? We are open and talk through things at all other times, and it really is just the 5 or so days before we get together.
Just wondering if we’re weird or if its normal haha 🙂
Post # 3
@ERsax: How often do you talk during the week? FI and I live away from each other (two hours by plane) so we only see eachother once a fortnight at the moment. Long distance is not easy but he calls me every night and we text a bit.
Sometimes when we have a day here or there where we miss calling each other I feel like I should have HEAPS to tell him on the phone then when I talk to him I remember NOTHING!!! ARGH! Then we just get a few weird silences on the phone sometimes as I rack my brain thinking of something that I need to update him on. Most of the wedding stuff we are talking about on the phone during the week.
I don’t know… I feel like the more things I can get out as I think of them / do them I just tell him about… I don’t put off much! Except when I’m waiting in the airport not wanting to tell him too much about my day because I know we have a 40min drive to his place!!
I’m finding we are also doing a lot of wedding stuff via email so we keep copying each other in to stay up to date too.
Post # 4
@Charbelle: were very good an communication usually – we talk multiple times a day and text each other as if we’re in the same town which I agree is really important. We’ve been long distance since July 2012 and in two or so months we’ll finally be married and living together, so perhaps it’s just that the last stretch is tough? I just feel like we’re both frustrated but not really sure why.