Post # 1
my maid of honor and FSIL wants to get a bachelorette weekend cruise together for me.
i think it sounds great but im also thinking who’s going to be able to come?
she really seems to want this for me which is so sweet of her.
what should i do? i just want to be with my family and friends and im afraid some people wont be able or want to go. my FI said ohh well its my party and hes all for it.
i just want everyone to go. what do you think?
i dont want to seem ungrateful ; ( i love the idea if some girls can come .
i just want to be with everyone that night.
Post # 3
@HisNightOwl2014: bump come on i know you bees are out there ; )
Post # 4
My bachelorette party was a weekend at Jamaica Beach in Galveston, TX. It is not a cruise and didnt involve a flight but it was still 2 or 3 nights for each lady and a 5 hour drive for half of us. Still I had 13 girls there and all of them were super excited to get away and hang out together.
I think you should talk to some of the girls and see what they think. I was surprised to find out that 75% of the girls that were invited were more than happy to make the trip.
It is your party so you do what you want to do!
Post # 5
@SaraP2012: we wont have to fly the port is close and we all live in the same town.
im just worried its too much my MOH thinks its a great plan and i do too but im just worried about how many of my girls wil be wanting a weekend getaway.
Post # 6
Maybe you should ask them? Have your MOH send an email out to everyone or call them (depending on how well she knows the other girls). She can look up pricing and give everyone an idea of what to expect. Your wedding is still a year and a half away so if they have a heads up they can start saving and planning now.
I know I would go on a weekend cruise for my friend. Actually I would be thrilled to go! I know you maybe anxious about it and I was too but you would be surprised at what your true friends would do for you.