- 7 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
Soooo semi exciting updates on my life. I’m pretty new here, but to give a quick background my Boyfriend or Best Friend and I have been dating almost 3 years and have talked extensively about getting engaged in the next year. we plan to move in together next july, and we’ve agreed we want to be engaged first. we live seperately now. i’m 25, he’s 31.
happy moment#1: this weekend he was joking around about his 10 year college reunion which is coming in may, and said that he’ll be pumped to introduce me as his fiance to his college and fraternity friends. MAY?!?! okay…i’m okay with this…
weird happyish moment 2: i decided to take the bull by the horns to talk rings- because i am semi picky about jewelry and i want to love the ring. i don’t need a huge budget and am realistic about our salaries, but i want it to be my style. we were chatting about our love and life etc and I asked him if we could go to a jewelry store together at some point to look at rings,. i said it didn’t have to be asap, AND i wouldn’t want to pick out my exact ring because i’d want to be suprised, but that i wanted to show him a few styles I like since it’s something i’ll have to wear for the rest of my life :o) i have told him in the past what I wanted (princess, pave band, no yellow gold!) but we’ve never..you know…LOOKED! I don’t believe he has a ring yet.
Soooo when I asked him this he seemed kindof..suprised, weird, etc. I of course thought i weirded him out or he thought i was being pushy, and restated that it doesn’t have to be immediately, just an idea for the future. he was like…”ok well if that’s something you want to do, i think we should go soon..like, tommorow? ” whaaaaaat??? i was like…ok, if that’s what you want? i don’t know why he’d want to go so soon. the only thing that comes to my waiting bee mind is that maybe he already has one? or maybe he’s going to get one very soon? or propose sometime in the next few months/near future? orrr maybe i’m overanalyzing. haha.
that’s about it. hope everyone had a good weekend! eeep