Post # 1
The pre-wedding nightmares have started. They are silly and bizarre but I am including among them 2 dreams I have had where I know I am engaged but am not sure to whom!
In one dream I knew I was engaged and wasnt sure who it was to and thought it was one of my exes which immediately made me sad. In my dream I knew we hadnt talked in a while so I wondered how we could be engaged and I hadnt seemed to have met my FI yet.
In the latest one I was engaged, not sure to whom, and was under the impression we had a big fight. Then I met some guy (not physically my type at all) and started flirting with him and kinda making out but was hesitant because I knew I was engaged. Then I realized maybe I wasn’t.
Post # 3
@HourThyme: Okay, take a DEEP breath. You’re stressed! Especially during the planning process, I had some REALLY weird dreams.
I’ve had dreams of myself married to other guys besides my husband, that doesn’t mean that I’m unhappy in my relationship. In fact, I can’t ever imagine myself with another man! The human mind wanders, it’s just what it does! Unless it starts to effect your relationship in real life, I wouldn’t worry about it. Dreams are subcouncious, they can’t be controlled.
Post # 4
I had a dream two nights before my wedding that I was engaged to my husband but I was also going to marry one of my closest friends so that he could get a green card. Simultaneously I was helping Benji from Pitch Perfect learn about sex and kissing as a favor to him and when I was hooking up with him I was so worried about what both my FI and my friend would think.
It was bizarre, and I am super confident in my relationship and happy in my marriage. I told my FI and all of my friends and we laughed about it during the rehearsal dinner.
Dreams get weird right before the wedding!
Post # 5
Seriously! I had THREE nightmares last night!
I don’t remember 2 of them anymore, but one was about the dress. Something about it wasnt right, It either didnt fit or fell apart, I woke up and told my FI all about them at like 5:30 in the morning. Needless to say,,, he was not amused! haha