Weird emotion

posted 3 years ago in Military
Post # 3
2262 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

When DH was deployed, I didn’t mind his venting at all.  Heaven knows he needed an outlet and I was happy to be that person!  I would have much rather him vent every conversation rather than have him bottle it up and be distracted while on a mission.

Post # 4
226 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I don’t find it weird that you don’t mind him venting. Am I missing something in the post?

Maybe you don’t mind he is complaining because you feel that confiding how he feels to you makes you feel closer to each other?

Post # 5
9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@PetalFace:  +1, I feel like I’m missing something too. FI and I vent to each other and are very supportive. I’d expect nothing less.

Post # 6
2915 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

Erm…you love him? Why would you mind hearing him vent?

Post # 7
7997 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

Well I think venting can become annoying when it’s an all the time thing. I don’t find it weird that you don’t get annoyed though since he’s not there to bitch in person. It’s good you’re an outlet for him.

Post # 8
28 posts
  • Wedding: January 2014

Not weird at all. You should be his go to. I feel really sorry for the guys who deploy and have no one especially when there on a ship or in the sand. Its sad actually. Its wonderful that you can take the venting without getting all sappy. He just needs an ear not pity.

Post # 9
4879 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

You’re his best friend.  Of course he would vent to you.  I guess I don’t understand the Question either.

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