(Closed) Weird situation…

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper

Where is the concert compared to the wedding? Can she be thinking of an “eat and run” type of thing so she goes to the concert after?

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Are you sure that it’s the same concert?

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

I don’t think it’s worth mentioning, but if she doesn’t show at least you’ll know why….

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Sorry I’m confused. It sounds to me like your friend’s friend is the person who’s flying in and attending the concert. In that case, what’s the problem?

Anyway, I don’t see the harm in gently asking your friend. Say what you said here… you’re not offended if they pick the concert, but you need to know ahead of time.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Maybe the friend is flying in, and staying on this girl’s couch? They go to concert, she goes to wedding and they meet afterward/rest of the weekend?

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@paula1248:  Anyway, I don’t see the harm in gently asking your friend. Say what you said here… you’re not offended if they pick the concert, but you need to know ahead of time.

Agreed.  Just mention you saw the post, but now its gone.  Tell her exactly what you said here.. you’ll be bummed that she picked the concert, but if she has plans to go, better to change her RSVP now with early notice, then to back out last minute.

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