Weird Snap Chat Issue with FI and Another Woman…

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Member
7654 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@FutureDrAtkins:  I don’t how snap chat works, but can you block her or something? I wouldn’t be putting up with that. I would also make my husband do the same. I don’t think there is anything bad from his end going on, but your friend is highly inappropriate, I would SERIOUSLY tell her that you do not appreciate her behavior and would like it to stop.

Post # 4
Member
4367 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

She sounds like an attention whore.

I would have waited to talk to him before confronting her, though.

Post # 5
Member
3570 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

This girl is not a friend.  She is crossing the line and I would probably cut her out of my life. 

Post # 6
Member
272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

ooooo, snap chat….another odd thing that I will never understand the purpose of LOL 

I would absolutely be unhappy with this. She seems like a little bit of an odd duck looking for attention from whoever will give it. Not a single one of my friends would send snap chats like that to me, let alone to my FI. Tell her that it’s becoming inappropriate and that you don’t appreciate her sending these to either you or your FI. And, ask fiance to not encourage the behaviour by responding to the messages. If she doesn’t respect this, maybe there isn’t a need for a “friend” like that in your lives? Hear out FI before letting your imagination take over about his responses though Smile

Post # 7
Member
539 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

That deffinitely sounds very innapropriate to me.  I’d certainly ask her (and him as well) what the heck those snapchats were about.

Post # 8
Member
6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@FutureDrAtkins:  your friend is sending racey pics to your man? She wouldn’t be my friend anymore. And if he is sending them back he’s on his way out too. They both need to be told that is unacceptable. I don’t know how snapchat works but if you have to be friends or followers or something I’d suggest they stop having that connection since your friend seems to make really stupid decisions when she’s drunk and your man is being an ass 

Post # 9
Member
7098 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

I don’t even know what snapchat is, but the whole thing sounds totally inappropriate.

Post # 10
Member
4220 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Hooooley shit, that is sketchy as hell. I would be having a serious chat with FI when he gets up. If those are going to him too, she is absolutely trying to seduce him. I would be freaking the hell out too. 

Post # 11
Member
6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@happyheidi1984:  this IS the purpose of snapchat! I mean, I suppose some people use it innocently but when I heard of it the first thing I thought was its supposed to be securing without the worry of someone publishing your pic (though now there are apps that will let you save them)

Post # 12
Hostess
22135 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2011

Whaaaat. I’d be freaking out too. This is totally, totally inappropriate, and not only do you both need to cut her off, you also need to talk to your FI.

Post # 14
Member
721 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

that is very inappropriate, but i think you need to have a talk with FI if he is sending snaps back and possibly going along with the inappropriate-ness

Post # 16
Member
272 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MexiPino:  *sigh* this makes me feel oh so old. Remember, back in the day, when we didn’t have these types of worries?  LOL 

Leave a comment


Sent weekly. You may unsubscribe at any time.

Find Amazing Vendors