Weird Thank You Note Situation

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
309 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

If the people who brought them did not specify, and it is not obvious by the choice of gift (ie, lingerie for you VS something off your registry), then I would just treat it as a general wedding gift and sign from both of you if it is something for you both to use. If it’s a thank you from both of you then you’re “covered” either way.

Post # 4
3260 posts
Sugar bee

@classyashley:  Either way you shouldn’t ever sign someone else’s name. 

Since they were delivered via the shower, I would treat them as shower gifts.

Post # 5
755 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I agree with @waitingwonderland.  I think that you and FI can write the thank you together, and that way, incase it was intended as a wedding gift, they wont wonder.  

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