Post # 1
So my manfriend and I took our friends out for celebrating thier engagement last night. We were talking about the Bachelorette party I went to Saturday night…
I made a comment in reference to what I DON’T want during a Bachelorette party, blah, blah, blah “… if C and I get married.”
C cuts me off and says, when it happens.
Okay. We got a when. Not an if.
I can be patient.
For a while.
Post # 3
I used to love little things like that. I found that comments calmed my waiting beast for a little while. 🙂
Post # 4
@panterapeach: I know, right? It just made me feel so at ease.
Post # 6
It is definitely the little things that count. For my SO to just utter the “M” word is a big feat. And it’s happening more and more. So do the I love you’s. Some guys are just s l o w !! Doesn’t mean they don’t love you or that it’s never going to happen.
I liked this one you just got – very sweet! WHEN not IF. Love it.
Post # 7
@prshadow: thank you! it’s the little things that start to add up. before you know it, we’ll have our proposals too!
Post # 8
That’s right! I’ve decided to be more positive about it. Been with my SO three years and I’ll admit that the first 2 were “iffy” as far as it ending up in marriage. Slowly but surely I’m getting better signs. I think focusing on the positive will help instead of focusing on what he hasn’t done or said.
Not to the point of delusion of course…but that’s my new plan. Also not bringing up the M word and not discussing it unless he brings it up first. Seems to really be relieving him.
Post # 9
Those are awesome moments. It will make you not so anxious even if its just for a few minutes 😉
Post # 11
That is great!! One step closer!!
Post # 12
@onelovegal: That’s more than something! To have a when and not an if is a big deal. Great feeling and definitely eases the waiting anxiety.