Well that sucks……

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@MrsFarm0619:  That does suck!!!!!!  Are they by any chance going to be getting married in the same town as you?

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@MrsFarm0619:  oh man! That does really really suck! 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014 - Ontario, Canada ♥ EDD- April 2016

That does suck 🙁 Sorry that happened! I was told by a ton of people and vendors that it’s going to be a popular date because of the double 14’s and all the even numbers, but that doesn’t make it easier if someone you know is getting married on the same date and it affects your own wedding 🙁

Post # 7
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

That BLOWS! I’m so sorry!

Post # 8
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Bummer, but props to you for handling it so well. I’m sure your friend is really going to appreciate that!

Post # 9
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Busy bee

Geez. I feel like her sister could have been a little bit more considerate. “Hey sis, when is that wedding that your in the bridal party for? I want to be sure not to choose the same date!”

I’m sorry that happened. 🙁 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Oh that really sucks. Props for handling it so well though I suppose. 

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@MrsFarm0619:  Have you already asked her to be a BM?

That’s so rude of her sister.  Aren’t you supposed to check the schedules of your “must haves?”

I’d rather attend my BFF’s weddign then my bro’s anyday, but that’s me.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

My best friend’s little brother just got engaged last weekend. Luckily, FI and I already booked our venue & set our date. And it just so happened to be Best Friend’s bro’s FI’s dream date. Well, shes moving it just so my Best Friend can be at both weddings. It would have torn her up to have to choose, so i’m insanely grateful. BUT they havent gone to book their venue yet… fingers crossed they arent stuck picking my date!! Then we’ll be in the same boat!!!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@MrsFarm0619:  is there anyways either of you can move your date? 

 

i could be crazy but i would move my date to have her if i had not booked it (also can you see if cuz clealry u had the date 1st mayeb the sister if she has not booked things might do a week b4 or later) 

 

hell even maybe if ur in teh same area work timing like if ur wedding is at 2 or 3 and hers is at 5 or the other way round so that she can be there for the vows to both i guessing leikly athe party of her sister 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@MrsFarm0619:  is there no way you could do urs a lil later in the afternoon (and she jsut skip part of the party to be there for your vows b.c. its so very special for you ) 

 

i would think since her sister was rude enought o not check the date of a wedding her sister was in that she would be ok losing her for a few hours 

 

i would try and se eif there was anways to move around it at all or if u can stich to antoehr date or something or if her sister has not mailed thignso ut yet she could 

Post # 16
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

That sucks =( I’m so sorry. Good on you for being so calm and understand about it though! I’d be so pissed off.

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