Well….THAT just happened

posted 3 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Why are you confused? You mentioned yourself she is a troubled soul.

She sounds like an idiot before all of this happened anyways. Don’t get me wrong, if I was her, I would have been hella pissed that my hubby didn’t answer me while out with my daughter because he was getting drunk. BUT that is none of your fault.

When some people get mad, they just want to find anyone to take their anger out on. Just let it go and make fun of Mr.Friend when you see him next. 

Post # 4
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228 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@Nona99:  I have no similar stories.  But she sounds like a loony.  What an entirely unreasonable and stupid expectation :/ 

Post # 5
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1349 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@Nona99:  Projecting much?  She has every right to be mad at her husband, I get that.  But to put it on you?  Hopefully she’ll have the good grace to apologize to you sometime soon!

Post # 7
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6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@Nona99:  She’s like those people who get mad at their boss so they go shoot up a McDonald’s. What? If you don’t like your life and feel the need to shoot somebody, freaking start with yourself. In her case- hell yes yell at your husband! But calling his buddy’s wife and yelling at her? No miss. 

Post # 8
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9231 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Nona99:  Oh, my!  What a lunatic.  I would say ignore her but I can understand why you’re bothered.  Could she be jealous of you in some way and this is one way of taking it out on you?  Or maybe they’re having some marriage problems …

Maybe you can call her later to talk and try and get some sense out of her.  If you care about her friendship I wouldn’t let it go.  On the other hand, sometimes you can’t reason with someone who’s being unreasonable and it’s better to let it drop and keep your distance.  Trust your gut on this one.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Nona99:  No but I wish I could nap on blanket fort with Disney movies on loop. That sounds awesome. Nice party! Crazy Mrs Friend. She needs a life and apparently she needs to get over herself (she probably sent him off with the baby thinking “he won’t last long at a party with a 2 year old”).

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@Nona99:  she’s so out of line. it’s her husband’s responsibility to abide by what they consider to be acceptable behaviour in front of their daughter – it has NOTHING to do with you, as long as the child is safe. 

what are you supposed to do? ask each person ‘are you allowed to drink? how much? in front of the kids or no? does your wife know you’re here?’ no. that’s ridiculous – he’s an adult, and should behave accordingly, whatever that means in their relationship. 

and you’re right – why couldn’t she have come over and picked up her child? she owes you a ‘thanks for feeding them and letting my stupid husband to stay over – i’m so glad he had a safe place to crash and it sounds like daughter had a fun sleepover with the other kids.’ then she should deal with her husband, this has nothing to do with you. 

Post # 12
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Nona99:   Maybe I missed this, but why didn’t she just come to the party with him if she’s so worried about him hooking up with someone else?

She sounds like the kind of person who put on a good act up until she got what she wanted – married – and now her true colors are showing.  I’d believe her and keep my distance.  Don’t take anything she says to heart because she has issues, obviously.

Post # 13
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11300 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

@MrsJX3:  Seriously. She has no reason to be mad at you. OMG how dare you not mommy a grown ass man? idk

Post # 16
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3806 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

if she has such a problem with alcoholism becoming a thing in her own family, maybe she shouldn’t drive her husband to want to drink. 

 

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