(Closed) Were Any Of Your Friends or Family RUDE After YOUR Proposal?!

posted 5 years ago in Proposals
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

…wow…no…but I guess I would take it as a compliment…your ring make her hate hers…

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@cct876:  Yep! My cousin who had been engaged for 2 years before I got engaged had the nerve to ask me if I was pregnant!!!! I was like are you serious! My wedding wasnt until a year after my engagement..so it wasnt like I was rushing to get married cause I was pregnant. I was sooo pissed about that comment!

Post # 7
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@cct876:  Sounds like a classic case of envy 😛

She’ll get over it.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

Congratulations on your engagement!

That is really rude, but as @Nona99: said, take it as a compliment!

Ring pictures?

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@cct876:  I was so mad because I know I certainly dont look pregnangt so she must have been saying  I got engaged because I was pregnant. I’m still mad about that comment to this day lol

Post # 10
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Nobody was rude to me. I’d take it as a compliment; however your friend appears a little competitive with you! 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I dealt with a few friends who made comments out of jealousy because I got engaged before them , sounds like jealousy here too, don’t let it get to u 🙂

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Yep! I asked a friend to be a bridesmaid and now every time I tell her a detail she’s like “well at my wedding I’m going to have designer stuff, blah blah. that’s cheap. ” One of those one-uppper types. fun stuff!

 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@cct876:  Eh… try to take it as a compliment.  A weird compliment, but a compliment nonetheless.  It’s better than the alternative i.e. “My ring is bigger and better than yours.”

 

Post # 15
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

My sister was kinda rude to me. She was already engaged for 4+ months. She still puts some of my wedding stuff down. But she’s getting better. . . she just didn’t wanna share the spot light.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

yes! my FI was engaged before, when we got engaged, a so called “friend”‘s response was “that’s much nicer than the one he gave *****!”

I was SO peeved! No “congratulations” or anything, just that!

Some people just need filters!

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