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    bunnylovesbear    February 19, 2011   north of Boston, MA

    So, like all of you, I'm playing "the waiting game" when it comes to the actual proposal. Here's a little background info:  The bf and I have talked in length about our wedding plans....rings, church, venue, colors, parties, even the date, etc.  Basically, we have everything planned out, just waiting on him to make it "official."  haha.  However, we're in somewhat of a rough spot financially, so even though he has the money saved up, he's hesitant to spend it right now.  (I totally understand, but it's still frustrating!!) 

    So yesterday we were talking wedding talk, and my bf and I decided that we are going to check out a venue the first weekend of October!  I'm SO excited.  The place I am interested in appears to be perfect for us...the food sounds good, the pricing is affordable, the reception room is beautiful....so I've pretty much stopped researching other places.  So we're going to check it out and go to their monthly brunch to taste the food to ensure it's THE ONE.  (The food is SUPER important to me.  We're huuuge foodies.)

    I'm so excited, I just had to share with someone.  Thanks for reading! 

     

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    That's great! Very exciting! (We're foodies too, so the food is big for us too.lol)

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    Thats great - sooo exciting!

    We booked our venue and photographer before we got engaged - I found it really took the edge of a bit... for a while!

    Have Fun!

     
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    bunnylovesbear    February 19, 2011   north of Boston, MA

    Thanks ladies!

    @futuremrs.martin - that's exactly what I was thinking!  If we have the venue that we love AND can afford all set, I dont think I will be as anxious for the ring because I already know it's coming sometime in the next few months.  I'm just afraid someone else is going to snatch up our venue on OUR date!

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    So I have a question for you ladies who had things actually booked before a ring... did you tell people? I don't think I could resist telling people once we had a place/date and that'd be hard if there was no ring yet I think!

     
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    lovehim    April 3, 2011   toronto, canada

    i actually dont have a hard time not telling anyone about the pre-ring planning..it is kind of fun having ti as our own little secret for now

     
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    FlipFlopBride       Virginia

    So exciting! Good luck!

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    @lovehim- maybe I just have a really big mouth! :) It has been RIDICULOUSLY hard not to tell my mom that I know my guy has a ring... but I really don't want to ruin the surprise (also, I'm worried that she'd slip up and let him know that I know/knew).

     
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    bunnylovesbear    February 19, 2011   north of Boston, MA

    @corgi....my friends/family know we talk wedding talk, but I dont think I would want to share with them that we are going to check out a venue before it's official.  I dont want to get anybody's hopes up and/or hear any possibly negative opinions about it.  (not that I think they would think it's a bad idea, I'd just rather not tell).

    But like someone else mentioned...it will be our own little secret to share until we are official. 

    On the other hand, if we totally fall in love with this place and want to BOOK it, I may share that development with my mom.  (especially since she's the one that plans to pay for the venue).

     
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    @bunny- that makes sense :) I guess it might be different if my bf actually knew that i knew he had a ring and was making movement on this soon haha. I just want him to do it already so we can plan for REAL!

     
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    MariaPaz    October 22, 2011   Santiago, Chile

    Sounds great, bunny!! good luck with the planning! Smile

     
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    bunnylovesbear    February 19, 2011   north of Boston, MA

    Eek!!  I would go NUTS if I knew my bf actually HAD the ring in his possession, corgi!

     
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    rmw61111    June 11, 2011   Michigan

    That is super exciting!!  I am engaged and I can't get my FI to go look at places yet. But I'm getting there. This week maybe. But I'm not holding my breath!  So, congrats!

     
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    jspeby    July 17, 2011   new york

    Thats awesome!! I'm having a hard time finding a venue that meets all our critera. Congrats on finding yours. It sounds perfect!

     
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    bunnylovesbear    February 19, 2011   north of Boston, MA

    we LOVED it!  The food was delicious, the decor was neutral, the facilities were clean, their bar was well stocked, and the grounds were beautiful!  so excited!!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    oh awesome!!!! i'm glad that you both enjoyed your secret rendevous with the venue (doesn't it sound awesomely romantic?!) this way the two of you got to see the venue without all the hoopla from your moms, etc... it was just the two of you....

     
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    bunnylovesbear    February 19, 2011   north of Boston, MA

    exactly!  no one even knows we went...well, except for one of my closest friends.  other than that, it was our own secret little rendevous!  :)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    oh how cool!!!!! i betcha y'all will be able to bring the moms soon enough!!! he sounds so excited and cute!!

     

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