(Closed) Were we rude to take the only single bedroom before wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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903 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Nope, you sound absolutely reasonable. As you said, this was your WEDDING NIGHT (duh you’d want a room to yourself :-P). Plus, weren’t you the one renting (and therefore paying for) the house? I would have done the same thing. Don’t let your mom bully you into feeling guilty for it.

Post # 4
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

NOt rude at all – it was for YOUR wedding, and you paid for it!!! Tell your mom to get over herself, or just ignore her

Post # 5
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376 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t think it was rude at all. In fact, I think most people would have expected you to take the private room. It was, after all, your wedding night.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I have a mother a lot like that who complains no matter what you do for her!  I don’t think that was rude at all, you saved everyone money because they didn’t have to stay in a hotel.  There are bigger things in life to worry about and if that upsets her, it’s her issue.  

Post # 8
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410 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I think you were more than considerate and hospitable to all of your guests. You went above and beyond, in fact. Your mom is being a PITA, imo.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Umm… honey, it sounds like you were FAR more than hospitable to everyone.  You didn’t have to do ANYTHING, truth be known.  It sounds like you went above and beyond.. and no, there is no way in Hades that it was selfish of you and your wife to take the singe bedroom.  It made the most sense.. and you deserve a room to yourselves for the wedding night.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

next family get together like that share the room with ur mom and have wild sex all night…that’ll teach her to complain lol. god forbid you have sleep with your new wife on your wedding night lol

Post # 13
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689 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@MsInterpret: Thank you! I know our wedding is faaar away from now, but every time I think about this place I get shivers! I’m a country girl at heart and I grew up taking summer vacations in upper Michigan. Renting it a whole week and having the wedding there will be just as cheap if not cheaper than renting a place here for one night. I think we will just rent it for another week and call that the honeymoon!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Nope…I don’t think you were rude.

My FMIL sarcastically said to us today “Oh THAAAAANKS for the Mother’s Day present!!!” when she found out we’re leaving on our honeymoon on Sunday.

Moms……..Undecided

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