- Miss Tattoo
- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2012
I have to admit that I have had dark moments of drunk texting, emails, and calls after a breakup, but I have never been the CRAZY ex girlfriend who sticks around for years and years.
FI has an ex. After we broke up when we were 20/21 he started to date this crazy biatch. They were together for 2 years. So that would have them breaking up in 2005/2006. This biatch is MARRIED with a child now! She got married in June. She still talks to his little brother and she always pops up when he makes major life changes. For example?
When we decided to get back together and he would move here to Pittsburgh, she blew up my email and my house phone. She called his job and pretended to be his grandmother with an emergency just to get to his phone ext. She waited for him at his job and told him he was making a mistake! This was ONE month before her wedding and 2 months AFTER she had her first baby.
Then he moves out here and she calls him 2 weeks later saying that he wouldn’t be happy. He changes his number.
Then we get engaged and one week later he starts getting late night calls from a private number. FINALLY she sent him a text, “I got a missed call from this number. Who is this?” Oh yeah sure, like we are effing stupid. So instead of playing with her, he calls her out and demands to know who gave her his new number. She blames it on his grandmother, which is a lie because she hates her. Then she admits it was his little brother. So she goes on and on about how happy she is, how she hated being with him, how we deserve each other, how she is so glad she got away from him, how much money she has, ect. She said she cheated on him and was glad because that’s how she met her husband (A LIE! She met her husband at a bar and he was married! She nagged him to divorce his wife and marry her. When that didn’t happen, she stopped taking her BC pills and got pregnant by him and showed up to the wife’s job with photos of them at the bar.)
So again, he told her to eff off and now last night she called again 10 times. We’ve blocked her number, but she has his business (he’s a freelance graphic designer) email and she’s blowing that up with hateful messages.
We called the police back in the state he left this morning and they act like it’s nothing major. Thank you small town cops from Arkansas! You are awesome! They said they would not make a big deal about it unless she posed as a threat. WTF!? So we are saving every email and text.
Sorry for the long vent. I just don’t understand some women. Like let it go! I know breaking up sucks and we all do stupid shit after a breakup but this is going too far! They broke up almost five years ago and she is still bothering him!
I’m trying to be good and not send her a message through Facebook. Help me stay sane because I’m toying with the idea of just cussing her out!