wet dreams

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
Member
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

awkward. i haven’t really heard of his happening to any grown men. my SO included. maybe use google to find some more appropriate forums for your male sex questions. 

Post # 4
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748 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

[moderated for snark, personal attack]

 

Post # 6
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307 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think she means we are ladies and maybe asking other males in a forum for men might get you more info, we deal with alot of things our men do, but it doesn’t mean we understand all the stuff about why your bodies do the things they do maybe health proffessionals would or other guys that have been through it@otto2008:  

Post # 7
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57 posts
Worker bee

Talk to your Doctor, bro. 

Post # 8
Member
112 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

don’t you have any male friends you can talk to about this or something? 

 

UGH.

Post # 9
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3249 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Zenostar:  @oishiioishii:  Probably not, no.  Most Men don’t talk about these things, and it could damage friendships.  It would also be a hard sell on any message board full of guys, and would devolve into childish jokes.

@otto2008:  it isn’t exclusive to adolescence.  Has anything changed substantially in your life recently?  If you truly are concerned, yes talk to a doctor or a reputable sex therapist.

Post # 10
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10219 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Thank you @Duncan: the voice of reason in this giddy room of school girls.

The man asked a Question (albeit not on perhaps the best of venues… as Wedding Website mostly inhabitated by women)

But he has been here for a few weeks now… and he’s had all his other Wedding Related Questions answered with honestly

He finds an obvious BOARD dedicated to INTIMACY Questions… filled with what would appear to be frank discussions on human sexuality

(I will admit the Questions & Answers on WBee are actually quite refreshing… if anyone has ever looked elsewhere on line for sexual info)

So he posted a Question to get some info / woman’s POV

Big frickin’ deal

He IMO deserved an honest answer… just as much as any other Bee here.

Someone doesn’t like the Question he posed… then click on by.

No need to humiliate the man.

 

Post # 11
Member
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@otto2008:  I am just saying there are other venues where you can ask this question, and actually find the answer you seek…. if my SO was on a wedding website (intended for women) talking about personally sexual things, I would be uncomfortable. 

 

Post # 12
Member
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@This Time Round:  give him an honest answer then. 

 

I don think anyone intended to humiliate him. I don’t go on computer or automotive forums asking for engagement ring advice…. so a male asking this question here just seems far from what this site is actually for. 

Post # 13
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1287 posts
Bumble bee

@highschoolhoneys:  I’ve seen men posting on this site.  It’s not just intended for women.  (and no, by my username, I’m not a male) 

 

Post # 14
Member
920 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

@rickhurst35:  agreed. men do post on here. but just because they do, doesn’t mean this site was intended for them. I don’t have an issue with men on the bee. but when the posts seem like some teenager just trying to have fun on the Internet, it makes me roll my eyes. 

Post # 15
Member
1287 posts
Bumble bee

@highschoolhoneys:  You don’t know that for sure. You can’t accuse him of doing that. Do you see he has 179 posts and isn’t, as someone would say, a troll, trying to get a rise out of someone.

Maybe he is afraid to talk to people in real life, or peers and finds it easier to talk to a group of women about it.

If you don’t like the post, and it makes you roll your eyes, stop opening it to read it and let people answer his questions.  

Post # 16
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9412 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

@Duncan:  +1. It’s really not worth arguing about. It’s the Internet. I could be a man for all you know. The OP wasn’t rude, so I don’t see the big deal. 

Having said that, I just need to second Duncan’s advice because I’ve never heard of this happening outside of puberty. My husband tells me it never happened to him. 

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