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    rol769      

    We're getting married in November of this year and I started to stress out about favors as well as everything else.  We decided to honor my parents and his brother who are deceased by making contributions to the associated charitable organizations and then have the tents on the table telling the people there that we donated to two charities to honor our loved ones.

     

    Do you think that makes us look cheap?  

     
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    caitlanc    September 12, 2009   Western Slope of Colorado

    Not at all!  I think that's a wonderful idea!  I don't know how anyone could argue with it. 

    The full disclaimer: we're not doing favors at all.  What about this? :  wedding charitable favors Icon Wink

     
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    mouse    September 11, 2009   Austin, TX

    Definitely not cheap at all!  I think favors are optional anyway.  Giving to charities is the OPPOSITE of cheap. 

     
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    FlipFlopBride       Virginia

    It's a great idea! I would much rather know that favor money went to a good cause. I have a souvenir votive holder from three different weddings. Do you think they're on my coffee table? Uh...no.

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    Agreed, that is very far from cheap. It's not only a great way to support the charity, but you're honoring your loved ones and raising awareness of the charity and the good they do. Way to go!

     
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    I think this is an opposite idea and agree with Indie that it's the opposite of cheap.  I think it's really classy, actually.

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    No, it is very generous and wonderful on your part!

     
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    MrsK2be    November 15, 2008   Ohio

     

    I love this idea - In lieu of a traditional "favor", our friends donated to the organization which researches and develops medication/treatment for the bride's little sister's disease.  I think everyone really appreciated it.

     
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    ladybug0506    10/18/03   Birmingham, AL

    I think that this is a beautiful way to express your love for them!  Also, in this economy charities are really suffering so I think it's amazing!

     
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    missmck    September 18, 2009   Iowa

    My brother and his wife did this - very appropriate!  And as someone that is trying to eliminate clutter from my life, I would appreciate this very much! 

     
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    Br1tSh1n1ngStar    10/17/09   New Jersey

    I also think that is a great idea! I've also heard of people including thank you cards on everyone's plate that explained a little bit about the charity, and why you chose to donate to them!

     
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    bgsualum    5/30/09   Los Angeles, CA

    My FI and I are making charitable donations rather than spending money on favors.  We're still in negotiations re which charities to donate to (there are so many worthy causes!), but we think our guests will appreciate the gesture.

     
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    krgk84    July 18, 2009   Bloomington, IN

    We're going to do this as well - the two we're considering are The American Cancer Society (my grandfather and his mother both passed away from cancer) OR the ASPCIA (We're both big animal rights people)......can't choose but leaning toward ACS

     
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    hamster    May 30, 2010  

    I don't think that seems cheap at all, and it's a great way to honor your family. Go for it!

     

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