(Closed) What am I suppose to do now?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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988 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I’m so sorry to hear about the pain you are feeling 🙁  My honest thoughts are that it’s time to let him go.  You may not have argued much, but he’s made it clear that he doesn’t want to be with you.  Unfortunately it is possible for him to change his mind on the marriage (better to know this now than once married), and it’s unlikely/not a good idea to try and convince him otherwise.  I think you are hurting now and probably feel even more miserable each time you get an email from him.  My advice in these situations, is to stop all contact, talk to a counsellor and friends and begin to slowly move forward in your life. 

Post # 5
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971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

It’s entirely possible that he got cold feet.  You definitely need to talk about your relationship and see if he’ll open up with his thoughts on marriage, etc.  It’s entirely possible that he felt overwhelmed for whatever reason. 

I hope you two can talk it through and work it out!

Post # 7
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971 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

If you want to clear the air, then clear it sweetie!  I hope you get answers and I wish you luck!

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