(Closed) What are the top three things you are scared of?

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Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

1. Needles/shots and other medical procedures.  Although I think the panic attacks that come when I get shots are from the anticipation.

2. Tornadoes just because of the quick destruction they can cause.

3. Death in general.

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

1) having an undiagnosable illness (closely followed by having a known serious illness… but the idea of having something that people cant figure out scares me more)

2) my dad getting lung cancer or having a heart attack

3) anyone else i know getting a serious illness/dying

basically, so long as everyone i know stays healthy i’m happy. 

Post # 6
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Newbee

Oh man, in no particular order:

1) spiders (I’m australian and they come pretty dang big and mean out here)

2) heights

3) forced involvement with street performers. if I’m avoiding your searing gaze and proceeding to walk in the opposite direction, it means I don’t want to be involved in your scary/embarrassing performance.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

1) clowns. uuuugggghhhh.

2) along with corgitales, i’m petrified of people close to me getting an illness and dying.

3) haunted houses… because i’m freaked out by things/people jumping out and scaring me. i’m getting anxiety right now thinking about it.

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

1. Amputation

2. Parent’s/Brother’s Death

3. Falling/heights

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

1.)  I’m with mandb122, I’m afraid of tornadoes too.  So much, in fact, that when my county has a sever thunderstorm warning, I check weather.com RELIGIOUSLY until the storm is over.

2.)  The dark.  I have nightmares almost every night and waking up alone in a dark room is terrifying because the dreams seem so real.

3.)  My FI, family, or friends dying unexpectedly.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

1) losing someone close to me

2) not living the life I’ve dreamt about

3) hitting a deer while I’m driving – I live close to the mountains, and there are deer EVERYWHERE.  I’m so scared they will dart out in front of me when I’m driving and I will hit it

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@LindsayB: Me too! I’m glad I’m not the only one.  I can deal with regular storms but when they’re severe and the winds are really strong it freaks me out!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@mandb122:  Ugh!  I know what you mean…I hate it.  I get so worked up!  I’ve done so much research on them, I swear I could be a storm chaser (if I didn’t pass out/puke/have an anxiety attack)!  I don’t know how people can get so close to the damn things.  I run for the hills if there’s even a threat of rain!  (Haha, ok, I’m exaggerating now, but it’s pretty darn close to how I feel!)

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

1) Dying or someone close to me dying

2) Tornadoes. If there is one thing I dream about over and over again it is a tornado. I always get that feeling of falling/being swept up in it while I am sleeping and I wake up all panicked.

3) Having someone break into the house. When we were little my next door neighbors mom had her house broken in to while she was home alone and was raped, ever since she told me that story I’ve been afraid of it happening to me. It happened to her while she was in the basement doing laundry so now of course my laundry room is in our basement and I think about it all of the time.

 

Post # 14
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I want in on this one too.

1) Needles.  I had to have an MRI last week.  The tech thought that I was freaking out about the machine.  I had to explain slowly through deep breaths that I was fine with the confined space it was the needle with the contrast that had me shaking.

2) Dark windows.  I’m terrified that the boogy man will be outside the window.  I track this back to my grandma, who when I was 8 went outside the camper while we were camping and put a flashlight under her chin.  Scared me soooo bad.

3) I’d have to say scary movies that have a potential to come true.  Movies about ghosts, demons ect.  Can’t see them, can’t see the previews sometimes.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

1. Fires. I saw a documentary on house fires when I was very young and it scarred me for life. I am better now but I still get very nervous when there are bush fires nearby, one reason I could probably never live in the actual bush.

2. Being hit by a car while I’m riding my beloved Vespa. Alternatively, having a car accident and being at fault and really hurting or killing someone. I have *no idea* how you would EVER get over something like that. I’m not a terrible driver, but accidents do happen!

3. DH and/or I being infertile and unable to have children. We (especially DH) aren’t really the type to do IVF or adopt, so I would have to make do with being an aunty. I know it’s not the end of the world and I know we will still have a wonderful life together no matter what, but I can’t stand the thought of how heartbreaking that would be. DH was told 10 years ago he has a low sperm count, we have no idea how it is now and won’t be TTCing until next year, but still this is a current fear of mine!

I hate flying too, but it’s a hate more than a fear (although part of the hate is fear of crashing, part of it is also being stuck in that airless space with no room to move or sleep, feeling yucky, and the awful boredom).

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Ok, so some of this is pretty embarrassing but:

  • Old age homes/the very frail elderly
  • Myself or someone I know being a victim of a violent crime
  • Fast zombies

 

 

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