what are things that bother you (that you know probably shouldn't?)

posted 2 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 2
Member
2700 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

ChicoryCreek:  Hehe, I’m like that too!

I have something that has recently been bothering me… I thouhgt about making a post about it… but feel like it ‘shouldn’t’ bother me that much. Here it is…

I’ve recently found a post about me on here! I’m not sure if the friend who posts knew I’d find it, but I did. To make it worse the post isn’t entirely true, and some hurtful things were said (about me and another friend). I want to say something, but also know I wasn’t supposed to find it and it’s just a vent, but the lies in the post really both me. Bleh…

Post # 3
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273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

winterwoodlandbride15:  uhh… I would be upset about that! Not so much that they were “venting” but that they wouldn’t come to me and tell me that they were upset with me or whatever the issue was. If she is a good friend of yours, I would bring it up, maybe not necessarily that you found the post but maybe that you feel like something is up…

ChicoryCreek:  I can see why that would bother you… it would bother me to. Maybe I am just overly sensitive but everybody wants to be “included”.

Post # 4
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2700 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

beeFANTASTIC:  We have talked about it and I thought the issue was resolved. That’s why it bothered me that in the post she said I wasn’t being receptive to her conversation (Lie! We talked about it) which let to other bees saying what a good friend she is and a horrible friend I am for not listening. Bleh… I just don’t see the point in bringing it up because she’s not acting any different towards me, it actually seems a little better. But I’m a little resentful…

Post # 5
Member
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I want to post my thing… but I don’t want what happened to winterwoodlandbride15’s friend to happen to me sooooo I’ll pass! =o)

 

 

Post # 6
Member
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

winterwoodlandbride15:  That sounds frustrating… I’m sorry! =o(  I had a friend like that! She talked so much crap about me at the end… I even took her out to dinner to tell her what was going on (I was trying to get my life together, debt and finishing school so I wasn’t going out with “the group” as often) but she went behind my back and started telling everyone else that I stopped hanging out because I met a guy. crrapppppppp. Some people are like that I guess… they only hear what they want to hear and see what what they want to see.

Hang in there! If she is treating you like normal then maybe she just needed one more last vent! But I can see why this bothers you… it is kind of harsh reading comments like that esp when only one side of the story was told.

Post # 7
Member
3526 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

It really bothers me when I’m talking in a group and get interupted. I take it personal as though they feel what I’m saying is not worth listening too. However, I’m aware that some people just don’t have manners. Lol

Post # 9
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5207 posts
Bee Keeper

winterwoodlandbride15:  That would irritate me too. I think you should confront the person IRL and work through it, especially since it sounds like versions of events are different.

That is why as tempted as I am to vent to my fellow bees on here, I refrain from doing so. You never know who is reading!

Post # 11
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2205 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012 - Southern California

I hate that people from my husband’s work text him on his days off. Like they can’t run his department without him! I’m also a strong believer in work & personal separation so I get irrationally irritable even though it doesn’t bother my husband & he is always respctful of our time together. I don’t say anything, but deep down I want to scream at his coworkers to get their sh!t together & leave him alone haha.

Post # 13
Member
1377 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

ChicoryCreek:  It probably bothers me too much when my schedule is interrupted by someone else’s mistakes/lack of foresight. I’m really tempted to put a picture up on my office wall of something like this:

 

I’m also overly annoyed when someone invades my personal space, physically or by sound. It’s an office, not a lounge party room. Go take your group that isn’t working someplace else!! I’m trying to work!! There’s a group of coworkers (as in, 10ish people) who will hang out in the office constantly, talking/laughing/etc very loudly. Drives me nuts. Plus they use my cubicle’s power strip to plug in all their random electronics so then when I get into work I can’t plug in my laptop to actually do work! *eyetwitch* I’ve tried to discuss it with them, but they just don’t seem to get it. 

I’m working late right now, and for once there’s no one IN my office, but there’s 6 people outside at the table outside my cube who just won’t. shut. up. and are on their phones, etc etc…. I really don’t think they even work in this department. I think they just hide here because they have a friend who teaches in this department. It’s 9PM! Go away! 

Post # 15
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689 posts
Busy bee

I get annoyed when people I havent talked to in a long time suddenly call me up and ask for a favor… so annoying.

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